81.  In this way, they won't worry too much, or focus much attention on some tiny things .

82.  Love also give rise to the dis-concentration of learning or work.

83.  It may waste the students' time and energy, or even hurt their hearts.

84.  In consequence, not everybody can live up to their expectations or fulfill their plans, this is normal and possible.

85.  For example, boys can play football or play basketball together .

86.  When they are chatting, they share their ideas and feelings or talk about some interesting things or just discuss about their idols .

87.  On the other hand, some people including some parents approve of love in school and even support or urge us to find a girlfriend or a boyfriend.

88.  It may result in that they can't graduate smoothly or have an opportunity to take up advanced studies.

89.  Different people come from different areas or in different ages may also have the chance to learn and get knowledge as possible as they want.

90.  So women can talk or listen to others with intimacy while men want to be superior in a conversation.